June 2013
- books
- unexpected kindness in strangers
- the rest of the world to travel
- languages to learn
- animals to take care of
- volunteer work to do
- the power of a good night’s rest
- the changing of seasons
- infinite things to learn
- billions of people to meet and possibly love
- billions of people who might love you back
you can have natural hair and be an oppressive idiot
you can wear a kufi, ankh and dashiki and still be an oppressive idiot
you can wear a headwrap and still be an oppressive idiot
you can listen to Erykah badu, read a chapter in The Autobiography of Malcolm X and STILL be an oppressive idiot
with flowers falling from their skin
more water in their eyes
more tremble in their hands
more women in their hearts
than
on their bodies
more softness in their height
more honesty in their voice
more wonder
more humility in their eyes.” —real man, nayyirah waheed (via nayyirahwaheed)
Everyone who reblogs this will get the title of a book to read based on their bio/posts.
Everyone. I mean it.
THIS IS THE BEST POST
I HAVE EVER SEEN
EVER
they really do mean everyone
Don’t let me down!
Your face is glorious.” —Rumi (via cosmofilius)
Maze - Before I Let Go [Feat. Frankie Beverly] [1980] [Prod. By Frankie Beverly]
In African American communities, it is customary to stop what you are doing, head to the dance floor and do the electric slide when this song comes on.
^^^Accurate.
all in the function 2 steppin with my drank in my hand.
^^^Yes! The ultimate 2-step song…with drank in hand…ain’t no other way to groove to this jam…
Yoo! I just seen a post on FB that asked, “What’s one song every black person knows?” This was my answer.
DON’T LET THAT BREAKDOWN CATCH YOU SLIPPING, THO. I’ve seen negroes stop their whole conversation to sing, “You know I thank God the sun rises and shines on youuuu…you know there’s nothin…nothing..nothin I would not do..”
This song is played at every Black function. Baby showers, cookouts, family reunions, birthdays, holidays, etc. Lol Timeless classic.
This and “happy feelings”. Frankie Beverly’s voice is everything. So much soul it almost makes me want to cry when I’m listening to happy feelings lol.
Welfare myths more powerful than the facts
All you have to do is unpack the question and consider the racial and economic history of the United States.
First, most social science research shows that to white Americans welfare automatically conjures up images of lazy promiscuous black women in the inner city, popping out babies like rabbits and turning government cheese vouchers into gold chains and plasma screen televisions.
Consequently for many Americans any question about welfare and the economy is really a question about race. This is not new, but in fact a longstanding narrative in American politics where during times of economic stress business and political elites have ‘protected’ the majority of whites from swallowing the harsh realities of American economics with a sugary dose of racial distraction.
The actual facts about welfare have always been pretty clear; whites and children are the greatest recipients and beneficiaries of various programs, but that’s not good fodder for talk radio. From the beginning of government sponsored welfare programs, discriminatory policies were enacted to keep blacks off the rolls (like excluding farm workers and domestics in the 1950’s) and even once those policies were removed media and politicians, especially on the right, insisted on maintaining the myth that the face of poverty in America was a black thing.
Politicians have played the welfare card
During times of economic hardship African-Americans make easy scapegoats, because it’s easier for many whites to digest than economic truth. The U.S. economy in the 1970’s was trashed by the oil crisis, Vietnam and failing manufacturing. But Ronald Reagan chose to pin the blame on black ‘welfare queens’ in the inner city who refused to work. The Gipper didn’t come up with that imagery, he just picked up that football and ran with it, like so many others since.
Inside Bill Clinton’s campaign war room his advisor James Carville famously posted a sign “It’s the economy, stupid” but outside on the 1992 campaign trail he promised America that he would “end welfare as we know it” to fix the economy. Black welfare moms were certainly an easier target than the Savings & Loans bank lobby.
In the 2000’s it seemed like the racial/welfare narrative might change when the face of economic graft and criminality became Enron’s Ken Lay, Bernie Madoff, the housing crisis and the bank bailout. Even conservative white America began to wonder if these captains of industry that were really just pirates in disguise were a bigger problem than welfare cheats.
But it didn’t last; by the 2012 GOP primary we were back to Rick Santorum saying he didn’t want to give white money to black people and Newt Gingrich saying blacks should demand paychecks instead of food stamps. It doesn’t matter that food stamp rolls swelled with white people during the recession, blacks on welfare was a safer target. All of which brings us back to the WSJ/NBC poll.
We should not be surprised that many whites think welfare/ black laziness is the cause of poverty in the United States; politicians and elites have been selling that snake oil during every economic downturn for 100 years no matter what the facts are.
Emotional Intelligence & Relationships
Emotional Intelligence describes our ability to assess and understand our emotions, as well as the emotions/feelings of those around us. We can be described either as having high emotional intelligence or low emotional intelligence,…
Every time I hear people talking about bans on saggy pants for looking unprofessional and just “off putting”, I wonder how come there aren’t bans on multiple facial piercings and those disgusting stretched earlobes and unkempt, greasy, white people dreadlocks and realize that the unprofessional and off putting ways white people choose to express themselves are never policed the same way black people are.